Friday, January 27, 2017

Wonderful Winter Writers Series: Guest Post By Molly Stevens

     I'm thrilled to have funny lady Molly Stevens guesting on my site again today! Her blog, Shallow Reflections, always has hilarious posts that resonate with mid lifers like me. Today she is sharing something near and dear to my gluttonous heart----her eating habits and the desire to tame her appetite. I CAN TOTALLY RELATE!! Please welcome Molly to Meno Mama's site today with lots of comment love. Enjoy!


WEIGHT LOSS TIPS TO TAME YOUR INNER GLUTTON



I noticed a few months ago that five extra pounds had settled onto my pint-sized frame and I could not move the needle on the bathroom scale, even when I made the supreme sacrifice of skipping dessert for a couple of days.
I began to fuss about it, blaming my metabolism, my sedentary job, and the stress of the presidential election.
My husband, the truth teller AKA excuse slayer, interjected, “Molly, you eat a lot. (He said ‘a lot’ with ‘a lot’ of emphasis). Have you noticed you eat more than I do?”
“Whoa!” I countered, “When you leave perfectly good food on your plate that is too little to save but too much to waste, what am I supposed to do with it?”
But the truth of his words burrowed into my cellulite.
I am a volume eater.
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Photo courtesy Pixabay, edits by author
I like the feeling of an overstretched stomach. Couple that with speed eating, perfected from years working as a nurse with a 7-½ minute lunch ‘hour,’ and I think you can understand the enormity of my problem.
I knew I had to employ tricks to eat in bulk, yet cut calories. I looked to the experts and tried proven strategies.
The plate method. This is a simple concept of filling half of your plate with low-calorie options like lettuce or broccoli, ¼ with lean protein and ¼ with a healthy starch. This seemed like the perfect solution until Patrick queried, “Molly, do you think a turkey platter is the best choice for this technique?”
When you want something sweet, eat fruit. After dinner, I notoriously crave something sweet, so instead of scooping Ben and Jerry’s, I sliced an apple and savored every morsel. It was difficult to transition from the tartness of the apple to the creamy sweetness of the ice cream but I did a stellar job. Patrick observed, “Molly, do you think this means eat fruit AND dessert?” I quipped, “Won’t the fruit cancel the calories in the ice cream? And what about the legion of calories I burned crunching on that Mac?”
When eating out, eat half of all servings. Patrick and I went to Geaghan’s Irish Pub recently and we split an order of house wings, though Patrick believes I ate two more than he did. Serves him right for going to the bathroom leaving me alone. I always eat more when I’m lonely.
Anyway, I decided to try their homemade bread pudding for dessert, and when it arrived I asked for a take home box. I scooped half into the box while I ate the other half mindfully, resting my spoon on the table between bites.
When I finished Patrick was still eating wings he had hidden behind the napkin holder. It was boring to watch him eat so I decided to take a bite of my sequestered pudding. Which led to another bite. Was it my imagination or did Styrofoam make it more delicious? I don’t know how it happened but I found myself staring at two empty pudding vessels.
Patrick blabbed, “The server who brought the container just saw you eat the second half.” Embarrassed I acted quickly and plunked my crumpled napkin in the container, creating the perfect illusion that it enclosed a half serving. When it was time to leave, I clutched my crock of deception and gave our server an airy wave goodbye.
Not to be defeated I have contrived a sure-fire way to kick-start my weight loss progress. I’m eating three fewer bites of each meal.
I wonder how long it will take Patrick to notice I’m using serving tongs.
Are you a volume eater like me? What are your failsafe weight loss tips?


BIO:


Molly Stevens arrived late to the writing desk, but is forever grateful her second act took this direction instead of adult tricycle racing or hoarding cats. She was raised on a potato farm in northern Maine, where she wore a snowsuit over both her Halloween costume and her Easter dress.    

She blogs at www.shallowreflections.com where she skims over important topics, like her love affair with white potatoes and why she saves user manuals.  No one knows for sure if her ideas result from eating too many carbs, or childhood exposure to herbicides in the well water. 

She has ‘practiced’ professional nursing for *mumble,mumble* years, and someday hopes to be competent or retired, whichever comes first. Her husband, is watching for early signs of dementia, and will have her put in a home when she shows an enthusiasm for camping. 

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14 comments:

  1. I can relate to the speed eating. My family tends to eat quickly, especially my husband. And then when you are sitting there, and the bread basket is still one the table, well....

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    1. Exactly. What else can you do but eat another roll? And when your bread basket is bushel size, it's bottomless! Unlike me after I eat all those rolls.

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  2. LOL!! Hilarious. It all makes perfect sense to me. I know you love Patrick, but doesn't know what he's talking about. : )

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    1. I totally agree Sheila. My husband is brilliant in so many ways but when it comes to weight loss, he is definitely skinny on knowledge.

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  3. We have rules for counting calories at our house. We don't count them if we eat standing, in the kitchen, from someone else's plate or with the refrigerator light on. Did I mention that we also don't own scales. I guess we burn all those calories off laughing. I have no other explanation for my beautiful svelte figure. :)

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    1. I love your rules, Barbara. And laughing is a very effective calorie burning activity. Plus laughter makes you not mind so much if you are plus sized. In fact a little extra layer of flesh makes laughing more fun.

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  4. I've been eating on a smaller plate, but I really like the turkey platter idea better.

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    1. It is a little trick I learned from chain restaurants, like the Olive Garden, Beth. You can feel superior when you only eat half of "Tour of Italy" not taking into account the serving size could have fed a family of four.

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  5. These were some good weight loss tips. I already do some of them.

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    1. Good job Stephen! I foresee a successful weight loss program in your distant future. Very distant future if you follow my tips. :)

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  6. Tim tells me often that I eat too much food and you know what I couldn't give a rats ass what he thinks

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    1. My kids think I eat too much too, and I don't give a damn, ha-ha.

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  7. **I don’t know how it happened but I found myself staring at two empty pudding vessels.**

    LOL,

    I can totally relate!

    Smiling in MN. :)

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    1. Isn't she funny? I love having Molly guest for me!

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