Friday, August 25, 2023

A Guide to Find the Best Incontinence Underwear for Women

Midway through menopause, I noticed that whenever I coughed, sneezed, or laughed too hard, I'd pee a wee bit, which of course alarmed me. But once I learned it was normal, I stopped worrying about it. Then I hit my sixties and found it even harder to hold my bladder, especially when I was on long road trips with nary a bathroom in sight. My husband, who is a few years older, was already experiencing little "accidents" if he had to wait any length of time to get to a bathroom. However, we both swore we wouldn't be the people who wore disposable underwear unless there was no other choice. Fortunately, there IS another choice, thanks to the people at Carer Health Company who have developed top-quality, leak-proof underwear.

Here's an informative guide from Carer Health on the best incontinence underwear for women: 

A Guide to Find the Best Incontinence Underwear for Women


Incontinence is a common issue that many women face at various stages of life. Fortunately, modern innovations in textile technology have led to the development of women's incontinence underwear that offers comfort, confidence, and peace of mind. This guide aims to assist women in selecting the best incontinence underwear by outlining essential features, key considerations, and maintenance tips.






Features to Look for in Leak-Proof Underwear for Women


  • Absorbency Levels

Different women experience varying degrees of incontinence, ranging from light leakage to more severe cases. It's crucial to select underwear with absorbency levels that match your needs. Manufacturers often categorize their products based on absorbency, making it easier for you to find the right fit.


  • Material

Comfort is paramount, and the material of the underwear plays a vital role in achieving this. Look for underwear made from soft, breathable, and moisture-wicking materials that keep you dry and comfortable throughout the day. Additionally, consider hypoallergenic options if you have sensitive skin.


  • Fit and Design

Proper fit is essential for leak-proof underwear. Look for options that offer a snug yet comfortable fit, preventing any gaps that might lead to leakage. Many brands provide a range of sizes and styles to accommodate different body shapes and preferences.


  • Odor Control

Odor control is a significant concern for those dealing with incontinence. High-quality leak-proof underwear often incorporates odor-neutralizing technology to ensure you feel fresh and confident throughout the day.


  • Discreteness

Many women value discretion when it comes to incontinence products. Look for underwear with a discreet design that doesn't draw attention to your condition. This can boost your confidence and help you feel more at ease in social situations.


  • Affordability

Pee panties come in a range of price points. While it's essential to find a product that meets your needs, consider your budget as well. Investing in high-quality underwear can lead to increased comfort and confidence, but there are also budget-friendly options available.



Tips for Maintaining and Using Pee Panties


  • Follow the manufacturer's care instructions to ensure the longevity and effectiveness of the underwear.
  • Be gentle in washing the product and use mild, fragrance-free detergents to avoid damaging the absorbent materials.
  • Air-dry whenever possible to preserve the integrity of the materials and leak-proof layer. If machine drying is allowed, use a low-heat setting to prevent damage.
  • Consider purchasing multiple pairs to rotate and extend the life of each piece.
  • Keep a small travel bag with a spare pair of underwear, especially if you're on the go.
  • Always have a plan for discreet disposal if you need to change underwear while outside.



Get the Best Incontinence Underwear Now!

Choosing the right incontinence underwear is crucial for women seeking comfort, protection, and confidence in their daily lives. Among the options available, Carer distinguishes itself as a trustworthy and dependable choice for top-quality incontinence underwear. Our line of leak-proof underwear harmoniously integrates comfort, performance, and discretion, tailored to the varied needs of women. Through innovative features and meticulous design, Carer offers a solution that empowers women to manage incontinence with confidence!

 

Friday, August 18, 2023

Fly On The Wall In The Month Of Gratitude


Welcome to another edition of Fly On The Wall group blog postings hosted by Karen of Baking In A Tornado. Today, Karen and I are sharing glimpses of what you would see and hear in our houses if you were a nosy little fly buzzing around. This month, the fly has caught me in a month of reflection and gratitude. Why such deep thoughts? Well, updating a will can do that to you. 


A few weeks ago, Husby and I realized that our will was REALLY old--like written before our last child was born. Yikes! So we had to meet with our lawyer and update everything---a Living Will, the kids' trust, the house deed, insurance policies, etc. It was a heavy conversation with the lawyer and of course, we had to go over all of it again with our adult children. They don't like thinking about the inevitable but we need to make sure they will be well taken care of long after we are gone.  


So, this whole process got me thinking deeply about my husband's and my mortality....and the importance of appreciating the life we have. I spent far too many years of my youth in a quagmire of self-loathing and depression, which often led to suicide ideation. Thankfully, over time I was able to put some of that anxiety aside and seek help. Now I wake every morning feeling incredibly grateful that I've been blessed with another dawn. I also end each day by reading several pages from my bible (the goal is to read it front-to-back---I'm more than halfway through it!) and sending up prayers of gratitude. I know everybody has their own beliefs and their own way of expressing thankfulness--this is just what works best for me!


Counting my blessings has become key to boosting my mental well-being. I have a running list of what I'm grateful for, and of course, it goes without saying that I appreciate my husband, family, friends, pets, home, my health, and my awesome job writing for AARP ( I have the best editors!!). But there are so many other things to be grateful for, too, such as......


DOGS. Especially my snorting, farty, little pugs! I will never stop having a pug by my side. 

CHOCOLATE. I don't even need to explain this one. 

COFFEE. Again, no explanation needed


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MUSIC. I love all music, but I just discovered the band Greta Van Fleet and I am officially obsessed.

NEIGHBORS. I have the absolute best people living on my street. We're all close and I adore them!


GARDENS. There is no better place to see God's handiwork, and He has doubly blessed me with an extraordinary backyard (but I also have the ultimate gardener in Husby). Seriously, my heart does a little happy dance when I see the flowers blooming all around me. 


HUMOR. This is super important!! I laugh out loud at least 5 times a day and let me tell you, it is 100% therapeutic!

The list goes on and on...modern medicine, cold weather, hearty crockpot meals, RVing, cruising, squirrels (and all wildlife in general), reconnecting with childhood friends on social media, throwing parties, swimming pools, coloring with my grandbabies, holding hands across the table with Husby while sipping cocktails at an intimate restaurant, watching a thunderstorm from my front porch, kissing and cuddling, trips to St. Augustine.....and last but not least, YOU, dear readers! August 27 marks 12 years since I started blogging, and I wouldn't have gotten this far in my career without your love and support. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!


***WANT MORE MENO MAMA? Check out my first humorous-but-informative article on menopause symptoms for Healthgrades HERE  I also have an article on the benefits of healthy eating for AARP that you can read HERE plus one on nutritious morning meals HERE and another on "easy breakfasts for people on the go," which you can read HERE

Now go check out what the nosy fly has been up to at Karen's blog, Baking In A Tornado



Friday, July 21, 2023

Fly On The Wall In The Blistering Month Of July

Welcome to another edition of Fly On The Wall, hosted by Karen of Baking In A Tornado. Today, the two of us are inviting you into our homes to give you a fly's eye view of what goes on behind closed doors. 


Another amazing 4th of July celebration is in the books! Lots of food, fireworks, and fun with everyone!

The fly at our house prefers to stay indoors not only to overhear our conversations but to relax in the A/C since it's hotter than Hades outside. Can't say that I blame him---every time I sit in the backyard garden I have to surround myself with double fans and chug an ice-cold beverage. Even the hot tub is no longer hot---we have it set at a refreshing 80 degrees so that we can pretend we own a pool. But the nosy fly still follows us around, and here's a peek at what he overheard this blistering month of July:


I recently suffered from a bout of Perioral Dermatitis, which is an unsightly red rash that starts on the nostrils and spreads down all around the mouth to the chin. It's an itchy, stubborn rash that is caused by an allergic reaction to lotions, toothpaste, and certain medications. In my case, it was a new facial serum I'd been using that triggered the ugly rash. My husband accompanied me to the dermatologist, and when she asked why I was there, I said, "LOOK AT ME! I look like a lioness who was just finished feasting on the bloody carcass of an antelope!!" My husband thought my remark was hilarious, but the dermatologist....not so much. 

Speaking of uncomfortable ailments, Hubs is dealing with an annoying case of Plantar fasciitis. He is on his feet all day walking several miles at work, but now it hurts to put pressure on the heel and the arch of his foot. He has to wear a support pad in his shoe during the day and a special boot at night to keep his foot straight while he sleeps. It has been bothering him for several weeks now and after listening to his numerous complaints while hobbling around the house, I jokingly tell him to just cut the damn foot off. The other night when we were in bed, my husband was struggling to get the bulky plastic boot over his foot while I was reading about weight loss stories associated with Ozempic. Our conversation went something like this:



"Man, I wish I could have a prescription for Ozempic."
"And I wish I could have an artificial foot."
"Either way, we'd lose a few pounds---I'd lose the weight of my gut and you'd lose the weight of a foot."
"Always looking for the positives, arent you?"

And of course, the fly was privy to other weird conversations that always involved my husband.  

"Hey, look at all the mail that came for you today."
"Yeah, it's depressing.....because now I REALLY know how old I am since I'm getting mail for discounted burial sites and offers for affordable cremations."


"Do you think it's hot in this house?"
"No, but I think it's hot in your pants...."
"Wait, what?"

"Why are you slurring your words? Did you drink?"
"No, but I have so much food in my stomach that my mouth doesn't work."



"I'm going to fart on your pillow to give you pink eye."
"No, in that case, it would be called stink eye."



"I'm not aging like a fine wine; I'm aging like a banana."
"How so?"
"I have brown spots all over my skin and a soft middle section." 

My GORGEOUS Grandbabes! They are my LIFE!!!

This episode of Fly On The Wall was brought to you by a writer who is very grateful that her job is an indoor one with a thermostat set to 74 degrees. Meanwhile, her husband is outside in the scorching 95+ degrees pulling weeds from a hot garden that's melting like a Salvadori Dali painting. Maybe I can talk the fly into braving the heat to deliver an ice-cold beverage to my husband. He might even learn some new curse words from Hubs, too. 


***Want More Meno Mama? I'm thrilled to share one of my first food articles in THE GIRLFRIEND (you can read it HERE) ---a website I have been trying to get published in for several years. But stay tuned--there are quite a few more articles coming from me on the site! Also, I have a new foodie article on AARP/The Ethel about camp food which you can read  HERE, and one on light summer food recipes HERE

After you finish buzzing around here with the fly, be sure and stop by Karen's house to see what her fly overheard this month! 

Baking In A Tornado     https://www.BakingInATornado.com











Wednesday, July 12, 2023

One Year Later And I'm Still Grieving




Today, July 12th, marks one year since I lost my sweet girl pug Savi. They say that the grief gets easier over time but I'm not sure about that. The pain of losing her still lingers; she was my best fur companion and I loved her more than I ever thought possible. She left a hole in my heart that I fear no other pet can fill. The tears still come when I think of her---as I often do. I remember the way she stared at me just before she closed her eyes for the last time while she was being euthanized. And I remember how my heart felt like it was being ripped from my chest. I don't know if I can ever get past that painful memory. Of course, I'm grateful for the two pugs I still have---I hold them extra close now---but they are not like Savi. She was my lap dog, my shadow, my baby. She loved to be cuddled and slept beside me every night for nine years. In my dreams, she's still there---until I wake to the empty spot beside me and remember she is gone. 

Maybe you think it's silly to grieve so hard for a pet, but if you've ever been in my shoes---as many of you have---you understand this unique kind of grief. I've lost a lot of close family members and friends over the years, but this particular loss hit me extra hard. I know that pets ARE family, no matter what anyone else thinks. Unlike humans who become ill and are close to death, pets are innocent and do not understand what is happening when their body starts failing. They depend on us to help them through the pain, even though they are often unable to communicate these emotions. They have no understanding of a higher power or faith in the afterlife. All they know is the here and now---with us beside them---as they are leaving. And we are left with their names forever etched into our hearts.

My husband has offered to get me another dog, but I'm still not ready. I may never be. Savi can never be replaced, and the thought of going through this pain again with another dog terrifies me. All I have left of Savi is a tattoo of her paw print, a box of ashes, and my memories.

Some very kind people reached out to me after my loss and gave me extraordinary gifts to memorialize my love for Savi. One is a stone plaque created for her and another is a painting that an artist sent me after reading my story about her in AARP. At times like this, I lean heavily on my husband and the kindness of strangers. I'm still taking the loss one day at a time, holding my fur baby close to my heart in every way possible. 




There is a video on Tik Tok that makes me sob every time I watch it but in a hard way, it's also comforting because it gives me hope that I'll see my beautiful girl again one day. This is from @muthapuppa:

"If your dog could have just one more moment with you, they'd tell you this: I know you miss me. I miss you too. But I need you to know....I took it all with me. Your love. Your scent. The memories. Even my blankey. Thank you for giving me so much love and joy. I love you. Always have. Always will...."


I will always love and miss you, sweet Savi. I look forward to seeing you again one day on the other side of the rainbow.....



Friday, June 23, 2023

Fly On The Wall On A Camping Trip


Welcome to another edition of Fly On The Wall, hosted by Karen of Baking In A Tornado. Today, the two of us are inviting you into our homes to give you a fly's eye view of what goes on behind closed doors. 

That nosy fly felt right at home with us recently on our first RV trip we took over the weekend of June 9. He brought a bunch of his friends, too, but I didn't care because I was having too much fun exploring beautiful Highlands Hammock State Park in Florida. If you know me well, then you already know that RV camping has been on my bucket list for many years. Hubs and I have dreamed of retiring together and hitting the road in a little RV, and we finally took the first step to make that dream come true. 




We rented a fully equipped 24 ft. drivable RV and it was perfect! I'm a very organized person who did my research, so the trip went smoothly and was absolutely the most relaxing vacation I have ever had. In fact, I'd say this trip was a game changer for me and my hubs. We know for sure now that this is the life we want, so we are making future plans to turn this dream lifestyle into a reality. The cool thing is that Hubs will be retiring next year, and I work remotely with my writing job, so I can continue to write anywhere, anytime. 


What I loved most about this trip was the pure serenity we felt in the park--it was so peaceful, plus we were surrounded by all kinds of wildlife. The sites, the sounds....we were totally immersed in nature, exploring her glory---but with A/C, indoor plumbing, comfy beds, and a mini kitchen, of course! We spent our days walking trails, checking out the park's CCC museum, photographing wild birds and animals, and socializing with other campers. We also ate like kings during the trip---steaks, ribs, and fresh veggies on the grill as well as yummy side dishes and desserts (calories don't count while you're on vacation, right?). 


But I'd say the best part of the trip was the evenings spent outside playing many rounds of horseshoes,  cornhole, and lawn darts. It was also nice listening to our son softly playing his acoustic guitar while Hubs and I sipped cocktails as the sun set over the thick line of trees. The night sky was so vast and clear that we could see hundreds of stars and track the constellations above us. 

There were also many funny moments on the trip between my son and Hubs, but the funniest was watching them try to figure out how to empty and clean the bathroom tanks. Yes, I'm talking about poo, and it was hilarious. 

This trip was by far one of our best--so much so that we already booked another one in October. Words cannot express how much this experience meant to me, so I'll have to share some of the highlights with photos: 
































If you've been thinking of taking a camping trip in an RV, I highly recommend it! It was one of the best vacations I've ever had, so I can't say enough good stuff about it. I promise it will be an experience you will never forget---bathroom tanks and all!


***WANT MORE MENO MAMA? You can catch me over at AARP talking about another type of vacation (cruising!) with my helpful tips here:  https://www.aarpethel.com/lifestyle/what-you-should-know-before-booking-your-next-cruise

Be sure to buzz around Karen's blog at https://www.bakinginatornado.com and see what the fly has been up to over there!



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